3 Steps To Up-Level Your Life By Being You.
How to Up-Level your life by being You.
Have you experienced your fair share of broken promises, hurtful relationships and life’s wreckage that has left you feeling stuck and confused? Do you catch yourself asking, “why does this always happen to me?” Are you finding that you can’t shake the feelings of desperateness, helplessness and spinning in the wheels of life?
Chances are if you are experiencing these thoughts and feelings on a frequent basis, life is trying to teach you the lesson of being who you are meant to be. It is life’s way of showing you that you are getting lost on the path to your life purpose and life experiences are pushing you to grow to get you back on course.
The good news is, you have control over how life is showing up for you and how you are showing up in life! It does not need to be blamed on bad luck, karma or whatever other reasons you may be thinking for the challenges you are experiencing in your life.
Here are 3 steps to help you up-level your life by being who you are and who you are meant to be.
1. Who are you really? List 5 strengths about yourself that you know to be true. What are the things that you feel come natural to you? Maybe you are a loyal and committed person to those around you? These are some of the strengths to get clear on and write them down.
2. What makes you different? What is unique about who you are? List 5 things about yourself that make you different from those around you.
3. Now, since you know some of your strengths and some of the things that make you unique and different, list 5 situations that you are experiencing right now in life. How can you can use your strengths and uniqueness to overcome these situations?
By recognizing what your strengths are and what makes you different, this will give you confidence and power. When you have confidence over situations, you will remove yourself from the victim role and into being able to take charge. Often instead of saying, I can’t do this anymore, by owning your power you would instead say, I won’t tolerate this behavior any longer. See the difference between saying can’t and won’t? Practice with the situations you listed in step 3, how can you own more of your power?
I hope this exercise helps you recognize your confidence in yourself!
Here’s to your success in life,
Helping Women Create A Kick Ass Life